
When your offer is accepted, you do not immediately hand the seller a check for the full purchase price. Instead, you deposit a smaller good-faith amount — earnest money — into an escrow account. That deposit secures your commitment while you complete your inspections, appraisal, and financing. At closing, it is credited toward your purchase. If the deal collapses for a covered reason, you usually get it back.
How Much Earnest Money Do You Need?
- Standard range: 1% to 3% of the purchase price in NJ and FL.
- Typical deposit: 1% to 2% in a normal market.
- Competitive offer: 2% to 3% to signal seriousness.
- Example: On a $400,000 home, expect $4,000 to $12,000.
The deposit is credited toward your down payment or closing costs at closing — it is not an extra cost. A larger deposit can strengthen your offer; learn more in our guide to making a competitive offer.
When Is It Due?
The exact deadline is in your purchase contract. Common timelines:
- Within 3 to 5 business days of offer acceptance (most common).
- Within 48 hours in faster transactions.
- At offer submission in highly competitive markets.
Deliver the deposit on time. A late deposit can be a contract breach and give the seller grounds to cancel and move to a backup offer.
Who Holds the Deposit?
The deposit goes into a neutral escrow trust account — never directly to the seller. In New Jersey, it is typically held by the real estate brokerage or the title company. In Florida, it is often held by the title company or closing agent. The funds stay escrowed until closing or until the parties agree in writing to release them.
When Is Earnest Money Refundable?
Your refundability depends on your contingencies and whether you exit within their deadlines:
- Inspection contingency: If you terminate within the inspection window for a covered defect, the deposit is refunded. See our home inspection guide.
- Financing contingency: If your loan is denied through no fault of your own within the contingency period, the deposit is refunded.
- Appraisal contingency: If the home appraises below the contract price and you terminate under the contingency, the deposit is refunded. Read about low appraisals.
- Waived contingencies or missed deadlines: If you waived the contingencies or let the deadlines pass and then default, the seller may keep the deposit.
What Happens at Closing?
At closing, your earnest money is applied as a credit toward your down payment and closing costs. If you owe $40,000 at closing and deposited $8,000 in earnest money, you bring $32,000 to the table. The deposit reduces your closing-day cash — it does not vanish.
What If There Is a Dispute?
If the deal collapses and the parties disagree over the deposit, the escrow agent cannot unilaterally release the funds. In New Jersey, disputed funds are held until the parties mediate, arbitrate, or obtain a court order. In Florida, the escrow agent may follow a statutory procedure or interplead the funds into court. Clear contingency deadlines and written termination notices prevent these disputes.
Take the Next Step
Understanding earnest money protects your cash and your deal. Get pre-approved, find a home, or schedule a conversation with Christian about your deposit and contingency strategy in NJ or FL.
Related Reading for NJ and FL Buyers
For more, read about making a competitive offer, buyer closing costs, or how to buy a house in NJ.

Christian Tibok
REALTOR serving buyers across New Jersey and Florida. Christian helps buyers protect their earnest money with clear contingency strategies. Learn more about Christian.
